Do you like to watch TV after work? You might want to reconsider getting a pet.
I have a cat today and he has taken by my daughters. When my older daughter who is now grown up started to not come home every day, the cat was making all sorts of sounds and walked into every room of the house searching for her like a parent who has lost their kid, I am not kidding. He is now used to this, he knows she comes back. But when my younger one starts this or boh decide to go to a university in another country which I think is highly likely. The cat will be completely destroyed, that is my fear, so I try to pick up the slack but since we both compete for the women in the house, in his mind, he doesn’t care that much about me, I am competiton unless he is hungry. He has his moments where he is kissing up to me, but it is only few times and far between. He might decide to cozy up to my wife.
I recommend cats, easy to play with them, comb them and cuddle. They mostly take care of themselves. But they are also needy. They need you. They need dinner at the same time. They need routines.
Hi everybody! I have been looking at posts on narcs and narc abuse on here and if has really helped me out a lot. I am currently struggling with my situation and need some advice/support.
I met a narc last year, everything seemed to good to be true. Love bombing, always texting calling and taking me on dates. Everything changed when someone warned me about him out in public in front of him and who he is. This caused a conflict with us and the love bombing seized.
he would tell me that everything is okay and i can come and talk. He would set a time limit on me and kick me out after that.
he would then text me like everything was fine and we hung out again and after that he completely ghosted me for one week. He came back and texted me a week later laughing about the ghosting and acting like nothing had happened.
he continued to text me ( not like in the beginning) make plans with me, then on the day of the plans he would just ghost me. One day he would act interested the next silence.
i contacted him a month later and he acted like nothing happened. He was on a vacation and sent me a picture of another woman ( someone he allegedly met on the trip) to strike a reaction but i never gave him one. After the trip he came to my place and was extremely rude, accusing me of going on dates with a bunch of men. The next day he accused me of being an alcoholic and that he wanted nothing to do with me but said well maybe we can be "friends" then ghosted me
i assumed at this point it was over and i would never hear from him again. He contacted me on the holiday a month later acting like everything was great. We ended up hanging out a month or so later and when we hung out it went well, i thought things were going in the right direction.
after we hung out.. silence. I would try to text him and if he replied it would be very short then he just stopped replying. He ghosted me for almost three months. I thought he was done this time and of course he popped up again like nothing happened. At this point i was getting sick of if so i questioned him as to why he dissapeared and always does this. Of course he had some sob story about a injury and family member dying of cancer. I felt pity for him and he gave me an apology.. so i took him back stupidly.
things seemed to be going smooth for a couple months, of course until his family member died and his injury got better he never contacted me and was distant. Menawhile, i was there for him during the difficult time for him. He lied to me about the funeral and never wanted to chat. I was chasing him and he would always claim nothing was wrong but when i said i thought he used me when he was down he could not handle it and would always tell me he didnt care and to go away. I would get so upset i would try texting him to work it out he would barelt respond and if he did he would not be nice about it.
we did hang out a couple times after that, he would ignore me after. One day i was like hey i think you are seeing someone else, and i was like well ixam seeing someone so no problem if you are he said " buy bye good luck with your new guy stop contacting me" i was devastated and tried to get into contact with him for weeks then i just gave up and accepted it was over. He ended up contacting me a month later acting like everything was fine. He wanted to go out and have drinks i told him i would. He and i both seemed to have a great time. He ends up ignoring me again. I kept texting him trying to figure out what was wrong. He kept saying everything was fine and i said ok can we hang out again? He said maybe i was like why? He just kept saying maybe …
our last conversation we had… i said what is wrong ? He said nothing is wrong everything is fine. I asked him why he keeps saying maybe. He said " maybe but i dont want to see you right now" i said why? He saix " im just not feeling it, if i wanted to date i would" i said why did you contact me less then a week ago wanting to go out? He said i didnt.. even though he did. So i said should i just move on or what? He said whatever you want to do. So i said that he was really confusing me and asked him if he had anything more to say before i move on? My messages were turning green so i panicked he blocked me and reacted irrationally. I said " omg did you block me? My messages are not going through. Even texted him on my work phone asking what was up. And called him twice ( please dont judge me i know it is pathetic i never was this type of girl before him) so he replied and said " Ok I'll block you now" then immedietly blocked me. He has never blocked me before since I have met him he will just ghost. Is this ths final discard aka " grand finale? Did i just push him too far?
this has upset me so much its hard to even function.
Hamsters, rats, mice and other rodents are great pets, rats especially. They are also quite dependent on you to clean them, feed them and talk to them.
They need a lot of attention and to be stimulated.
All pets are “difficult”. Some are just crazy, like the first group.
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But in short. They have feelings, deep empathy, caring and their emotions are far more complicated than we can fathom.
But that goes for all animals. All dogs need to be walked, once a day in all weather. They need to solve puzzles and learn new things all the time. It is different between breeds.
Next group is animals that live for a very long time, like turtles and parrots. Parrots live almost human length of time, Turtles can easily get to be well above 100 years old. You need to have made sure there is a passover of ownership as your pet will outlive you by a considerable margin.
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Getting a pet is a lot of work, you are inviting an animal into your house and promise to protect it and play with it. You have to honor your part of the deal. Else, why did you get a pet?
Anything exotic. Spiders, snakes, animals that were obviously smuggled into the country.
Also with larger parrots, they are highly social animals and don’t take well being along or if they had a friend or a crush earlier on, they take seperation extremely badly and will pull their feathers and get infected. They are also destroyers of home furniture like you would not believe, plus they are poop machines and just poop all over, with feahers all over the place. They will escape through the first open window they see. They are very smart but not that smart, just they want freedom. They will probably never come back. I have heard of a few stories about them coming back but the other end is far more likely.
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